My words of wisdom are these:
Be selective about what you support: what you give resources to in the form of money, time, viewership, and the like determines what the world is made up of.
For instance: Viewing a program online that has ad revenue coming from it that gives destructive influences to others; supporting a cause that is abusing the donations and doesn't really help people in need; buying a product from a company that treats their employees miserably; and you get the idea.
People don't think enough on how their influence shapes their reality.
Don't be a person that doesn't even do, just talks or puts the job unto others.
For instance: I'm in need of donations for my GoFundMe where I am facing being evicted and on the streets with my wife. I have gone through every option available from local help to online help to other areas of help. I found out a conclusion: People are mostly talkers and not doers. They want to refer you to a program like Salvation Army: That is fine and well if my local Salvation Army wasn't the lowest of low support centers without funds. Or people love saying that they have no funds to help you with: this would be factual if everyone had not even one dollar to spare... But they do have a dollar. People just don't want to help. They want someone to pawn you off on. They want to not lose anything in the progress of helping you. They don't want to give up a dvd they have or not by some alcohol they were wanting to help you. Another excuse I run into a lot is that you aren't local and we only help local or you aren't a group and we only help groups or you don't have a job so it's going to be a waste of money to help you. Another one is that why should strangers help you if your family won't even do it?
Don't be a fault finder and problem maker (aka busy body)
For Instance: Observing and going out of your way to attack someone and find a mistake, error, or flat in them that you can exploit and hurt them with. I think a lot of people do this to make themselves feel superior while also benefiting from them being hurt.
A worker that wants more power in the job and doesn't like an employee, so she creates a hostile work environment and monitors them for errors that they later exploit
Going out of your way to find a fault with someone under the guise that you are trying to rid the world of evil yet you gain the feeling of superiority from finding the fault and feel enjoyment from thinking you fulfilled a purpose at the expense of another's well-being.
There is an exploit in how our reality functions: That people gain now what they don't have to fulfill later since the future is undetermined.
For Instance: What I mean by this is that people can offer you something or agree to something knowing full well that once they obtain it, it can't be taken back and they no longer have to fulfill what they promised unless you can prove it in some way. And they won't give you any written agreements because it can be used later. Or people gaining something under one context and exploiting it under another.
When someone asks for money that they will pay back later.
When someone says if you do this or that, they will do this or that later: someone asking you for a picture but then taking your picture and leaving without doing their part.
Winning a case for a drug to be used medically, then using that as a stepping stone for using those drugs for recreational wants.
People are full aware of these exploits and they abuse them all of the time.
Stand up for what is right even if it costs you something or makes you uncomfortable.
For Instance: Fighting the good fight and walking the good walk.
Not allowing someone at work to treat another unethically even if you can lose your job from it.
Standing up for yourself legally even if it will cause you to suffer more debt and ramifications from a lost.
Losing a friend in order to protect an innocent stranger.
Evil people delight in their evil deeds but people trying to be good often looks the other way.
Don't be one of those people that only cares about their inner circle and not about strangers in need.
For Instance: Helping your friend when they are about to be homeless, and yet not caring if another person you could of helped goes homeless.
Supporting a friend over a stranger, even if you know that friend is wrong.
Showing love towards a friend; and yet if that person was not your friend in the same state and situation, you would treat them the exact opposite. People often do this. I find it disgusting that if they are their friends, they are loving; but that same person if they didn't know them, they would treat them the total opposite even though nothing has changed.
Own up to your Word and follow through with consistency.
For instance: People will often great you great one day and make agreements, then forget about them the next day and act like you aren't even needed in their lives.
A new friend that you made one day that doesn't even acknowledge you the next.
Someone that liked you one moment, then treated you like an enemy the next just because you said something they disagreed with.
Saying you will do this one day and never doing it the next.
Acting like you love someone one moment, then acting like they don't exist the next.
This is something that people do all of the time.
ALWAYS SEEK OUT GOD
For Instance: People often give up on God without ever trying to truly seek God.
They make judgments about God without trying to know God.
They automatically formulate conclusions without trying to seek God.
They don't endure the hard stuff to know the Good Stuff.
They simply just GIVE UP without even trying.
This is the most important advice: I know God exists and see God working in my life all of the time. I know God is there so those that don't see God aren't looking hard enough. Most simply give up when it gets Hard to follow God. A lot judges God before even knowing God. And almost no one Seeks God before stating that God doesn't exist.
They allow themselves to jump to conclusions and fault assessments without any effort.
Don't allow MONEY and HARDSHIPS to come between LOVE.
For Instance: A lot of family problems are a result of financial needs and hardships. I found out a lot about who my family really was when I actually needed something that would cause a lost to them.
Needing rent and not giving it even though you can help
Making a family member take a loan when you can simply give them what they need.
Acting like a family member is a lazy bum when they are trying their best and judging them when you have no right
Asking a family member or love ones constantly if they have jobs or if they are looking or countless other questions formed to judge and not help because you want to justify a judgement in your mind about them.
Family members and those that people supposedly love are often not helped without some agenda or criteria or judgement that is placed upon them: This isn't of love and nothing good ever comes from it; it just damages and destroys relationships.
DON'T BE AFRAID TO BE DIFFERENT AND WALK A UNIQUE PATH.
For Instance: This is truly a hard one: The World operates on the foundation of being the same. People want to identify with you on some level to care. They want to have some common basis for their relationship with you. They want you to operate by the same rules as them. People don't really like difference unless the majority accepts that difference.
The Path to God is narrow and the Path to Hell is Wide. Usually the path that everyone is following is the wrong one and this is even shown through mob-like behavior as well.
A unique path will oftentimes be lonely and costs you friends
Being true to yourself and open can often get you ostracized and out-cased.
DON'T ALLOW FEAR TO KEEP YOU FROM BEING YOURSELF AND DOING RIGHT IN THE WORLD.
Being yourself can get you into a lot of hardships and trouble because it's harder to get jobs without social contacts. It's harder to keep jobs when you are so different. It's harder to do what you want when you have no resources. It's just plain HARDER
Well, I am not sure if you read it all but hopefully you will find Wisdom and knowledge and understanding that you didn't have before from reading my letter.
Take Care, With Love Through God and Jesus and The Holy Ghost,